It is February, and we have, finally, taken down our Christmas tree. In common with churches of a similar theological persuasion, we keep our Christmas tree up in the Sanctuary until Candlemas, the last of the Christmas and Epiphanytide festivals, when we say one last goodbye to the infant Jesus, and start the journey towards Lent and Easter; as our liturgy encapsulates: we turn from the crib to the cross.
Other trees have gone too. Earlier this year, three large trees were removed from Goose Green, they were diseased and a few new ones have already been planted. It was quite a task, with tree surgeons taking several days to take each one down.
Both of these are reminders of the constancy of change: some things are here for a season, and then it is time for them to go. In our PCC we have started to hold conversations about what we really value as a church: is it things we can measure, such as numbers attending, and financial income, or is it something else? Such as the quality of relationships, the life of the wider community?
As we reflect on our role as a church in the 21st century, we might need to recognise what is no longer fruitful and let it go, as well as identify where new growth might be found. I'm delighted with our emerging partnership with Southwark Youth Justice Service, you can read more about our recent evening with them below. Local resident and congregation member Brenda La Mothe tells a little about her life, and her engagement with questions of racial justice. Speaking of what must be let go, Jane Hawkins walks us through how to sort our rubbish properly.
We are proud to host the Strong and Steady exercise classes here at St John's, in partnership with the NHS; Dorothy Oxley explains how doctors and healthcare professionals are making more use of social prescribing to make a difference to their patients' wellbeing. Nicky Jones tells us all about playing the organ, and a wide variety of creative hobbies, including ballet. Jim Nurton's review of 'Sally Hayden's award-winning 2022 book 'My Fourth Time, We Drowned', is an unflinching view of the plight of those who have attempted to cross the sea into Europe. We encompassed such people in our prayers as we kept Racial Justice Sunday this February, with its theme of 'Exodus' focussing on displaced people.
What happened? Young people and restorative justice
By Revd Gill O’Neill
Just across the other side of Goose Green from us here at St John’s is the Southwark Youth Justice Service (YJS). Many of us will have walked past the building with little or no idea that it is there, let alone know what goes on inside. So, it was wonderful to welcome several members of staff and volunteers to St John’s one evening recently to hear more about their work, and especially about the process of restorative justice, which finds roots in many faith traditions.
Restorative Justice creates an opportunity for both victims and offenders to meet with one another in a carefully facilitated conversation so that the offence is acknowledged and rejected and victims are given a voice. The aim is to repair harm and find a positive way forward.
Restorative justice approaches are used in all kinds of settings, schools, workplaces, churches, and not simply in the criminal justice system. At the evening event, we were treated to a moving role-play of a restorative justice meeting between victim and offender (right), and it was interesting to learn that both parties are first invited to answer the simple question, ‘what happened?’
An inspiring evening
Over 40 people attended the evening, from across Southwark. It was particularly heartening to learn about the work of volunteers at the Southwark YJS, people of all ages and backgrounds who act as mentors, enable young people to participate in reparation work, or attend police stations as an appropriate adult when a young person is arrested.
We were encouraged to consider volunteering ourselves, and those with organisations and buildings were encouraged to think of opportunities to offer reparation work placements.
In all, it was an inspiring evening. I was struck by the care and patience of the YJS staff and volunteers, who work with some of the borough’s most troubled and disadvantaged children. I was also pleased that so many people cared enough about this subject to give up an evening to find out more.
As Christians, we know that we are all ‘offenders’ in one way or another, and we all seek repair and restoration. The YJS makes this a reality. We are planning to hold future events looking at different aspects of youth justice. Watch this space.
Blue Christmas service
By Ish Lennox
Starting from the middle of November, shops, media and advertising collude to convince us that Christmas is magical, full of joy and fulfilment. Cares are banished and laughing children reinforce the message that sadness and anxiety have no place in the festivities.
But what if the circumstances of life mean that sorrow is the overwhelming emotion felt at Christmas? How do you observe it then? A Blue Christmas service offers a space where the reality of life with its grief and pain does not have to be left at the church door but can sit alongside the hope and light which is the real heart of Christmas. The service acknowledges that there are many who feel on the edge of seasonal merriment and gives an opportunity for people to be real about the range of emotions we all feel at this time of year. It provides a space for our sorrows to be acknowledged and to be met with hope.
This year at St John’s we have continued our journey exploring racial justice and recognising the pain around this issue. We were keen to explore how a Blue Christmas Service could help people express their pain. A group of us from St John’s went to the Blue Christmas service at St James’s Piccadilly to find out what this kind of service looked and felt like.
The service itself was very simple – a mixture of carols (sometimes just selected verses) and readings to narrate the Christmas story; prayers which acknowledge pain and emptiness alongside the Christian hope; and a reflection which gently speaks of light in darkness.
As people arrived, each was given a service sheet with all the words and instructions needed, along with a candle. Quiet music played for about 10/15 minutes before the advertised start time with the leader in place to create a calm, safe atmosphere. Towards the end, we were invited to light our candle as a sign that even in the darkest night, the light of Christ offers hope.
It was a lovely service offering space to acknowledge our grief and sadness and to find hope in the midst of it.
Vicar Revd Gill O’Neill vicar@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Curate Revd Gemma Birt curate@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Assistant Priests Revd Anne Clarke anne@oakhurstgrove.com , Revd Alistair McCulloch mccullocha95@gmail.com and Revd Rosemary Shaw rshaw1983@icloud.com
Parish Administrator office@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Churchwardens Tayo Olatunde 07908 679 407 and Julie Whitney 07786 686 385
Parish Safeguarding Officer Mary Dawson (contact via Parish Administrator)
PCC Secretary Christine Camplin
PCC Treasurer Claire Nylander
Stewardship Martin Howell
Director of Music John Webber
Editors of The Gander Christine Camplin, Jim Nurton, Tayo Olatunde and Dorothy Oxley
(Contact each of the above via Parish Administrator)
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