This edition of The Gander is a generous helping of Christmas fare, starting with a rich menu of Christmas festivities from places as varied as Finland, Malaysia, Australia, Nigeria and Jamaica. More locally, this month we are given a flavour of all that has happened and is happening in and around St John’s East Dulwich, and beyond. Thank you to all of our contributors, and The Gander team who have put together this festive edition for our delectation.
I end this year, like many people, tired but immensely thankful that I am a part of this warm and generous community. Church is all about sharing life together, indeed, the first words of any order of service in church are headed, “The Gathering”. Since gathering became the most dangerous thing to do, we have had to be incredibly imaginative to find ways to keep hold of the ties that bind us together. As we reach the end of an extraordinary, and, for some, traumatic year, it is comforting to be reminded, in this magazine, of familiar rituals that keep us connected, and give pleasure and joy; such as eating, dancing, music and Advent windows. And it is reassuring, that in the midst of difficulty, we have not stopped caring, most especially for those who are vulnerable, as in the work of the Robes Project, Dementia Friends, and Jane Hawkins' work at Pembroke House.
As we turn towards Christmas, and return again to the story of the vulnerable child born to a young and powerless teenage girl, may we be reminded that at the heart of the Christmas story is a vision of life-giving and subversive change: a story that tells us that the best change comes not through force but love, and not through compulsion, but patient endurance. This year has required much love and patience from all of us. May we, together and apart, find the love that is able to endure all things, and as you read these articles and stories, may you find a little of the comfort and joy you need this Christmas.
Revd Gill O'Neill
This year's main Christmas services will be ticketed events because we are having to limit numbers and ensure social distancing. The tickets can be booked via Eventbrite and are, of course, free of charge. If online booking is difficult for you, please get in touch with our Administrator by email, or email Raymond or Gill. The services will also be livestreamed on Zoom.
soup with shredded chicken), bread and pickles. There will be drinks and sugee cake (made of semolina flour and almonds). On Christmas day all the family will come over, each bringing a different dish which will be served buffet style. Food includes: semur (beef stew), debal curry, roast turkey, roast chicken, mixed vegetables, pickles and saltfish. Dessert will be trifle, sugee cake, pineapple tarts and cookies. The food is washed down with wine, punch and other drinks.
For over half of my life, Christmas has always been an Australian affair. Since my grandmother’s time, we have always spent a part of Christmas Day with all my Aussie cousins. Obviously over time, the numbers have been increasing - we now number 17 (including me!). I could manage 14 around the dining table here in Sydney but the only people who can sit 17 are the “country cousins” who are cattle farmers and live near a country town called Bathurst, about a three hour drive west from where I live in Sydney.
The road had finally been cleared 4 hours earlier after one of the most decimating fires ever known in that area which lasted for weeks (surely a miracle). Firefighters (all volunteers in rural areas) were still working along the road (yes on Christmas Day) and every passing car honked their horn and yelled out greetings and thanks for all their hard work.
so Christmas has always been a time of great unifying joy in the birth of our Saviour. We always pray together giving thanks for the past year and the celebration together, as well, of course, for the greatest gift of the coming of our Messiah.
people join the family. The latest tradition is on Boxing Day - helping out on the farm, feeding the cattle (particularly during the drought), riding horses, quad bikes, huge tractors and then cooling off in the swimming pool in the afternoon with champagne and nibbles!
Ondine Road have organised Advent windows: each evening in Advent one resident decorates their window so that by Christmas Eve there will be twenty -four windows lit up on the street.

November. Thanks to everyone who has made a donation: so far we have raised over £2,400. The money will go straight to Robes to help our homeless neighbours get through the winter. It is not too late to donate and you can do so on our JustGiving page here.
has now been approved so we are starting to plan some enriching ideas for anyone joining us at coffee morning. Our first art session is planned for 16 December at 12 noon and will be led by the Arts Factory. To register and receive materials please email office@stjohnseastdulwich.org with your name and address by 12 December. There are limited places and this is a free activity. Coffee morning continues to meet every week at 11:30 am.
and of the design of the new shop. Obviously the Covid-19 pandemic this year has been a bit of a blow, and unfortunately meant we had to close the shop twice and lost business as a result, but with improved PPE and the use of fitting screens we have changed our methods of working to ensure that customers and staff are safe in our reopened store. Also, during August/ September we introduced a voluntary appointment system for those customers who like to think ahead, and this helped us to manage numbers in store during this busy period.
Oru writes: Our aim in setting up Oru was to provide people with an environmentally responsible, lifestyle workspace that’s closer to home. People are happier and more productive when they know home and crèche are nearby. It’s why we always try and think, 'What is it that people will need, how can we make it easier, more comfortable?' This dynamic approach allows us to be more reactive – viewing change as an opportunity to grow – and has no doubt helped us to navigate these uncertain times. It's why we launched our Bounce Back scheme, offering a period of free membership to those who are looking to change career-path, or, as has happened, may have become unemployed during lockdown. 


A Christmas Poem
By Maya Corbin
Christmas carols fill the air,
Trees are decorated with care,
Children playing in the snow,
Fairylights shine and hearths glow.
Santa flying through the night,
Elves at work and reindeer take flight,
As the moon rises and light switches click,
The world is waiting for the arrival of St. Nick.
When stockings are hung and fires are alight,
All the world waits for his flight,
The morning star shines in the sky,
As we wait for the morning to come by.

St John’s
By Zara Barmby
As I walk through the corridor,
The soles of my shoes pressing against the tan concrete,
Bubbling conversation brewing around you,
The new and familiar faces welcoming you in.
As you grab the green hymnal and turn to your page,
The organ starts its song,
Rejoicing fills the room,
Songs of praise filling your heart and soul.
People’s stories all around you,
The smell of incense filling your nose,
Everyone crowding round the font for the baptism,
So eager to let a new member into our church.
Prayers to put our world at rest,
Topped off with some tea and a biscuit,
And inside you’re thrilled,
Because you want to come to St John’s again.
-impressive and included a delivery driver type smartphone app. Despite this it was often extremely hard to find addresses on the estates. I imagine this must impact on residents. It was fascinating to see the range of housing we visited; from the condemned blocks of ‘streets in the sky’ Taplow House and Wendover to sheltered housing, hostels and new-build flats. The panoramic view of London from the top of Taplow and Wendover and the large open spaces between the blocks evidence the benefits of the modernist vision. I even saw children happily playing on a communal balcony. Sadly
the poor state of the stairwells, often blocked by drug users, demonstrated the failures. (Note: Southwark have cleaned up the communal areas and drug dealing has now reduced).
What are some of the other things you have been involved with at St John’s and the community?
that some cats have also taken this unexpected opportunity to participate in high-level work meetings. They stroll across keyboards or sit on them and trail their tails across the display, interrupting proceedings with a classic Hollywood screen-wipe. In addition, the Minutes Book provides a comfortable cat-sized seat and the desk is a nice high vantage point in the room.
She found a welcome and a shelter. Doorkins Magnificat entertained visitors (including the Queen) for many years. At Christmas, she slept in the straw-filled manger in the cathedral’s nativity scene. The Dean of Southwark, Rev Andrew Nunn commented that: ‘She did more to bring people to this place than I will ever do.’ Doorkins died on 30 September this year and the following month Southwark Cathedral held a live-streamed memorial service for her. The 71 Club
A memory by Don Fuller
The 71 Club was named after the year it started. Father Martin, who was vicar of St John's at that time, wanted us to run a social club ourselves. Although it was linked with St John's, the club was open to anybody.
I did not join the club until several months after it had first began, and that was only because of a chance conservation with a complete stranger on a 176 bus from my workplace on the Waterloo Road. They told me about this club that was having a literary and debating evening and the subject appealed to me.
We all met weekly in our various houses. Each person could arrange a programme themselves, and we also had guest speakers to entertain us. Topics ranged from growing tomatoes to collecting dolls, weather forecasting, and musical performances. We also decided to have our own fireworks display one year, as that particular club night happened to be on November 5th. We kept going as a club for about 25 years.
Thinking of that day when I met the stranger on the 176 bus, if the subject had been flower arranging, I do not imagine that I would ever have arrived at St John's. Whatever path my life would have taken then, I do not know!


It's a fascinating discussion of how Mary has been understood and interpreted in Western history, and beyond, from the Gospels up to the Reformation. There’s quite a lot of theology in the book, but also lots of information about art and music, popular festivals and individual devotion (and plenty of pictures!).Vicar Revd Gill O’Neill 020 7564 0058, 07958 592 425, vicar@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Assistant Curate Revd Raymond Baudon 07934 817 431, curate@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Assistant Priests Revd Anne Clarke anne@oakhurstgrove.com and Revd Alistair McCulloch mccullocha95@gmail.com
Parish Administrator Bradley Collins 020 8693 3897, office@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Churchwardens Jim Nurton 07765 881 556 and Julie Whitney 07786 686 385
Parish Safeguarding Officer Tina Hampson (contact via Parish Administrator)
PCC Secretary Christine Camplin
PCC Treasurer Sarah Goudge
Stewardship Martin Howell
Director of Music John Webber
Electoral Roll Officer Bradley Collins
Stewardship Secretary Martin Howell
Church Flowers Sally Gross
Goose Green Centre Bradley Collins
Editors of The Gander Revd Raymond Baudon, Christine Camplin, Jim Nurton, Tayo Olatunde and Sue O'Neill
(Contact each of the above via Parish Administrator)
Website: www.stjohnseastdulwich.org
Twitter: @StJohnsEDulwich
St John's & St Clement's C of E Primary School, Adys Road, London SE15 4DY
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