so traumatically damaged by the Blitz. Gary Hunt brings us interviews with some local retailers in 'our manor'. Revd Gill tells us about the importance of Sabbath rest for us all, both in the context of a time of sabbatical and through her book review, of Dr Gabor Mate’s book “When the Body says No”. If reading is a way you enjoy resting and reflecting, Jim Nurton and Anne Coates provide us with some excellent book suggestions, Jim with his pithy and insightful book review of Barak Obama’s “A Promised Land” and Anne through her reflections what writing in lockdown was like (with some excellent insight, on her Hannah Weybridge crime thriller books!)
the Carol Service on 19 December, Christingle and Midnight Mass on Christmas Eve, and 10am Masses on Christmas Day, Boxing Day and Epiphany. Free tickets were available on Eventbrite for the main services.
in time for the February issue of the Gander but do look out for information in the Friday email or check the Fairtrade Foundation website.
Southwark and South London Society of Organists and Bromley and Croydon Organists’ Association, with guest organist Anna Lapwood. Following an introduction and welcome by John Webber, director of music at St John’s and Chair of SSLSO, Anna performed a short recital including JS Bach’s Fantasia in G minor BWV 542, Ghislaine Reece-Trapp’s In Paradisum and Star Fantasy by Christina Arakelyan. Anna then discussed her journey to becoming a professional organist, conductor and broadcaster, before presenting awards and taking the winners through a workshop at the organ.
Do you enjoy writing? Would you like to help keep St John’s congregation in touch? Perhaps you would enjoy arranging magazine layout? The Gander needs more people to join the team, to maintain a healthy turnover of backgrounds and interests, and keep a fresh outlook, reflecting our whole congregation. We want to encourage a diverse mix of people on the team in terms of age, gender, etc. Might you be able to help?
the Gander to include lots of voices so we may ask for contributions from other members of the congregation or local people such as retailers, community organisations, elected representatives, etc.
Lent is a time of reflection. During this time, we often give something up as a sign of sacrifice and to test our self-discipline. This year at St John’s, with the approval of the PCC, and in line with our Eco Church initiative, we have decided to have an “Eco” themed Lent (Eco Lent 2022). You may wonder what an Eco themed Lent entails. Well, this year, our aim is to encourage the St John’s community to take up an eco-friendly activity as a replacement for an old non-eco-friendly activity. This activity can be undertaken alongside any other sacrifice/self-discipline you are planning for Lent. For example, if you live locally and drive to church, perhaps you may want to consider walking to church. If you enjoy sparkling water and often find yourself buying dozens of plastic-bottled sparkling water, would you consider buying SodaStream which converts tap/filtered water to sparkling water? And, if you use reams of cling film, would you consider switching to reusable wax brown paper as an alternative? The same with batteries, would you consider switching to rechargeable batteries? I found this blog very helpful in highlighting “eco-friendly” alternatives to our everyday-use products. Here is another useful resource for eco-products, The Eco Shop. Although lent doesn’t start until 2 March, the next four weeks gives us enough time to educate ourselves and really think about how we would like to be part of this initiative and make it a success.
My father is Chinese, and so celebrating Chinese New Year is an important part of my family’s tradition. This year it falls on 1 February, and as its precise date depends on the moon’s cycle, it is also called Lunar New Year.
One of these sweet dishes is called “Tang Yuan”. They are little dumplings made of glutinous rice flour
that are filled with a sweet toasted black sesame paste. They are simmered in a home made sweet ginger soup. They are made in white and pink; and this year, I made them at home in London for the first time. They were very easy to make, and delicious, chewy, and really quite pretty floating in the sweet ginger broth.
This is a photo of our family sharing a special Chinese New Year salad, made up of raw fish, lots of vegetables, and plum sauce, crackers, peanuts and special spices. It is called “Lo Hei” or in Singapore we also call it “Yusheng”. Everything is ceremoniously added by everyone at the table, and then with chopsticks, everyone lifts the ingredients up from the plate as high as they can and wishes each other a Happy New Year! It is the ritual of tossing the salad up and saying “Lo Hei” that is really important!
Most Chinese homes will be decorated with lots of bowls of oranges, mandarins, fresh flowers and red and gold banners. Here are some photos of how my family have decorated the outside and inside of their home in Singapore this year. You can see the little red banner with Chinese calligraphy and a tiger on it, a “Good luck and welcome to the Year of the Tiger” sign. Can you spot the little orange Calamsi lime trees?
On the first day of the Lunar New Year (which is a public holiday in Singapore), we as children would wake up excited for the day ahead. We would start by putting on a complete set of new clothes that would have been bought to mark the fresh start the new year offers. The clothes would always be in bright colours, if possible red! We would then find my parents and say “Kong Hei Fat Choi” ("Happy New Year" in Cantonese). We would give them each a pair of mandarin oranges and my parents, in return would give us red packets.
out for us, such as dried red dates, watermelon seeds, and pineapple tarts. There would be Fanta orange for us, and Chinese tea for my parents. At the house we would meet more relatives who would all be visiting my grandparents as they were the most “senior” in the family.
My sister and I used to be thrilled, and at the same time absolutely terrified, at the lion dance. The lion’s bright colours and enormous eyes, as well as the deafening sound of the drums that accompany it, were overwhelming for a small child! We would try to find places in the house to hide from the lion as it traditionally visits every part of the house to “chase” away any bad spirits and, as I understand it now, effectively bless it for the year ahead. The whole dance culminates in the lion finding a parcel of lettuce hanging from the ceiling, which it reaches by the acrobats in the costume jumping on each other’s shoulders and one of them reaching up, through the head of the lion, to grab the lettuce and “eat it”. It was a hugely exciting experience but I was always glad when the lion found his lettuce!
over 90 interest groups covering a broad range from literature, foreign languages, art appreciation, discussion, walking, cycling, table tennis, Zumba gold, singing, music, cultural visits, wine tasting, bridge, cryptic crosswords plus many more. We also aim to cater for individual needs such as physical and mental impairments and hearing loss for example. Members are actively encouraged to set up new groups to cover interests not catered for.
In the end I had to put the project to one side and as I did so I had a vision of an armchair on a stage, and in it the dead body of the leading lady. Suddenly I was back in the 1990s when there was no pandemic, no social media, few mobile phones and smoking was still permitted in pubs. And there was Hannah Weybridge patiently waiting for me to expose her to more crimes to be solved. It was wonderful to be back in Hannah’s world picking up with DI Claudia Turner and DS Mike Benton, keeping up with the journalists at "The News" and seeing Hannah’s daughter Elizabeth make the transition to nursery.

The consequences of the Blitz were still visible - ruins and desolate empty plots where there had been terraces of homes and shops. St John’s Church was closed; between December 1940 and April 1951 marriages were solemnized at the Church of the Epiphany, Bassano Street. St Andrew’s Mission in Waghorn Street was sold in 1948. It had been declared redundant in 1932. (It is now a Rosicrucian meeting hall.) The dates 1939-45 were added to the Calvary.
Some of the old elementary schools became primaries: St John’s Schools, St Anthony RC, Grove Vale, Dog Kennel School - but at the age of eleven pupils moved elsewhere.
It was
estimated that over 70,000 buildings were completely demolished in London and another 1.7 million damaged. Families returned from evacuation. Post-war maps showed where patchworks of individual prefabs had replaced fractured terraces. The housing shortage had started before the war and prefabricated dwellings were one of the strategies prposed in the 1944 Housing (Temporary Accommodation) Act. By January 1947 over 100,000 had been completed. There were over 20 different types; the most familiar in London was a flat-roofed, detached “box” assembled around a core kitchen and bathroom unit. | GH | So, Bruno, you seem like a new kid on the block but just how many years have you been trading in the area? |
| B | 8 years. We started on 31st January, 2014. |
| GH | And what first attracted you to the area? |
| B | It’s friendly, lots of independent traders, nice community, nice parks, no tube. |
| GH | So tell us a little bit more about yourself. What piqued your interest to pursue a career in wine? |
| B | Love did. Love for my wife who I ended up having a business with and a love of the diversity of wine itself. The diversity of French wines is astonishing! |
| GH | What are the best sellers at both ends of your price range? Any exciting new wines for 2022? |
| B | We have some excellent Rhônes from £10.99 and the glamourous Nuits St. Georges is selling well too at £59.99. |
| GH | Lastly, on a personal level, what’s on your bucket list for holiday this year? And why? |
| B | I don’t really mind about holidays. I just want to be happy wherever I am – be it SE22, Provence or The Caribbean… |
Bruno is currently in France, touring vineyards and negotiating with his established and new contacts in his favoured regions to bring back the best of French wines to his premises in East Dulwich. They are open 6 days a week, closed on Mondays, Bruno, Lou and his team will be pleased to offer expert advice for your wine selections| GH | Dave, we starting shopping with you from the very first day you opened in East Dulwich . William Rose is now an established and notable trader on Lordship Lane. What brought you to the area from your previous location in Kennington? |
| DI | Introduction of London Congestion Charge decimated the business there and the demand we already had from customers we served who lived in East Dulwich. |
| GH | What are your busiest days of the week and how many staff do you employ on those days compared with the rest of the week? |
| DI | Our busiest days are Friday and Saturday. We have 9 staff, ranging from full-time to part-time. We have 5 members of staff on the quieter days. |
| GH DI |
It’s obvious that you have a good local following by the queues. What proportion of your business comes from the food and restaurant trade? That’s a difficult one. We lost a lot of our restaurant trade during the Covid period and a big loss of trade through the disruptive road policies now in force in East Dulwich, that’s caused approximately a 25% drop in trade. |
| GH | What differentiates William Rose from the butcher’s counter at a supermarket? |
| DI | Personal service. Also, we support British farmers with their high welfare and quality of meat. Quality before price is our motto. |
| GH | What meat do you prefer to eat at Christmas and Easter? The traditional turkey and lamb, respectively, or something else? |
| DI | Mostly turkey and duck for Christmas and for Easter it’s always lamb or chicken. |
| GH | Can you tell us a little bit more about Farmers What do you sell and how long you’ve been trading on Lordship Lane |
| SF | We’ve been trading since 1964. My Dad started the business and I joined him in 1989. We sell all manner of things – buckets, cleaning products, kitchenware and stationery, to name a few. |
| GH | How was trade for you over this last Christmas period? Did you notice much of a difference between last year and the previous year? |
| SF | This Christmas was a little quieter than the previous one. Last year a lot more people were working from home which increased footfall on Lordship Lane. Also, non-essential shops had to close to customers just before Christmas which boosted our sales as we were exempted. |
| GH | Do you think that people have shopped more locally recently? |
| SF | Yes. That has been the trend for a while now. People are keen to support the local businesses which is fabulous. Also, working from home during the pandemic has been good for the local economy. |
| GH | Your family has been in the area for some time. What things have changed most in the area in your lifetime, for the better…. and the not so good?! |
| SF | So many changes! I would say the ‘flavour’ of the area has changed. Many families wanted to leave London as they feel it could be unsafe or that the schools weren’t always great. The opening of Sainsburys at Dog Kennel Hill damaged the local independent shops greatly and it took a long time for Lordship Lane to recover. Gradually things have improved – lots of small businesses and residents took a chance on East Dulwich and the area improved. Unfortunately, the street and some businesses have started to struggle again. Many shops have closed over the last few years and Covid has hit some harder than others, many traders feel some of Southwark’s decisions have been damaging. |
| GH | Lastly, on a personal level, what aspects of life in East Dulwich do you and your family most enjoy? |
| SF |
Working at the heart of East Dulwich has been amazing. I’ve been on ‘The Lane’ for 33 years and on the whole it’s a wonderful community with warm and friendly people. I love meeting and chatting to them, young and old. As a family, most of our time is spent a little further afield at the BMX track in Burgess Park – you’ll find us there most days or racing at a track somewhere in the UK. |
Sophie and her team are open 7 day a week. They sell a huge variety of Home Goods and are one the longest established retailers in SE22. Great service and so helpful with your everday purchases. They are located on the site of the V2 rocket that fell on the buildings on Lordship Lane in 1945 and was rebuilt to accommodate local traders, pictures of the original buildings on the site and the devastation it caused can be seen on the front of their shop window.
but found that the family funds for lessons had been used up by an older sibling! But I was soon living in London and didn’t feel the need for a car. However once we had our first baby I discovered what a nightmare it then was to travel by public transport with a buggy. A journey to the outer reaches of London was the final straw and I booked driving lessons. I was definitely not a natural but passed second time and bought a very cheap car for me to build up my confidence. But as time passed I still found driving made me pretty anxious. Part of the reason was that I did not need to drive very often as mostly everything was easilly reached on foot or by public transport. I would end up having to think of reasons to use the car. So as we couldn’t really afford the cost, we got rid of it. The plan was to rent a car if we really needed one, which we did for some holidays over the years and may do again in the future.
Our children went to primary school a five minute walk away. When they went to secondary school it was by bus or walking, and they developed great skills at dealing with all manner of things that might happen on the way! Outings were by public transport to parks, swimming pools, walks in the country, National Trust properties, museums, London Zoo, etc. The children learnt swimming, dance or instruments a short walk or bus ride away. Our rather petite eldest started learning the cello a bus-ride from us; I confess I was relieved when it was not pursued for long! Horse riding, Woodcraft Folk and many more activities have also featured.
have included St Ives, Newquay, the Cairngorms, the Norfolk Coast, Centre Parcs, Bournemouth, the Gower Peninsula and abroad to places including the Catalonian coast and Corfu. My youngest and I have had UK camping trips by public transport, carrying all the necessary equipment!
Transport for London (TfL) has said that 2021 was its busiest ever year for its hire bikes.
Being an old, grade-2 listed building, I would say that the hardest things to achieve in becoming a fully Eco Church are goals that align with our energy consumption. Such goals as changing the church’s very old boiler to an eco-friendlier one without a dip in performance, improving the church’s energy efficiency rating and becoming energy semi-independent by installing solar panels.
This book kept popping up on my social media feeds, and I was intrigued by the title. The premise is simple: that our bodies are affected by our minds. This sounds uncontroversial, but modern medicine can be dismissive; in a recent NHS health check, my blood pressure, blood sugars and cholesterol were all scrutinised, but I was not asked about my psychological health. Dr Gabor Maté is a retired Canadian GP who grew increasingly interested in the connection between stress, trauma and health outcomes. He draws on research and personal stories to support his view that the stress we experience has a significant impact on our physical wellbeing, and that persistently high levels of cortisol lead to illness. Maté argues that we need to look at how familial and wider societal systems, and not just individual psychology, can be antagonistic to health. This coheres with Laura Howell-Williams’ article, “It’s just not cricket” about the racism experienced by Azeem Rafiq, and how such trauma can lead to physical health conditions. (Gander, Nov 2021) Maté argues that people who tend to prioritise the needs of others above their own are more likely to become unwell. Maté avers that illness is the body’s way to communicate: our body “says no” because we cannot; our body is telling us something about our stress, because we struggle to acknowledge it with our minds. He does not suggest that people are therefore to blame for their illness, rather we need compassionate curiosity about the stress and trauma we carry, and that medicine ought to include psychological along with physical examinations. In this period of great societal stress, this call for a compassionate and honest understanding of how stress impacts wellbeing is timely and illuminating, and reminds me that the Christian tradition has much to offer here.
pressed too hard by life”. Sarah Palin (remember her?) was “a potent disruptor” but “appeared lost, stringing words together like a kid trying to bluff her way through a test for which she had failed to study”.Vicar Revd Gill O’Neill 07958 592 425, vicar@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Curate Revd Gemma Birt curate@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Assistant Priests Revd Anne Clarke anne@oakhurstgrove.com and Revd Alistair McCulloch mccullocha95@gmail.com
Parish Administrator Denise Fulgoni 020 8693 3897, office@stjohnseastdulwich.org
Churchwardens Jim Nurton 07765 881 556 and Julie Whitney 07786 686 385
Parish Safeguarding Officer Tina Hampson (contact via Parish Administrator)
PCC Secretary Christine Camplin
PCC Treasurer Sarah Goudge
Stewardship Martin Howell
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Church Flowers Sally Gross
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